Forgive and Forget?
Kate says . . . I don’t think there is a wife out there who hasn’t been hurt by her husband! I also know that as wives, we have done our fair share of hurting our husbands. We are human. Marriage is...
View ArticleForgiving the Unforgivable
Brad says… It was a warm fall day and I noticed just a hint of crispness in the air, as I frantically drove to the most difficult meeting I’ve ever had. The date was October 2nd 2006, a date forgotten...
View ArticlePlease Don’t Hurt Me
Brad says… Are you doing everything you can to avoid conflict in your marriage? Do you avoid the sticky topics, swallow your own desires and ignore your spouse’s failings? When you feel a conflict...
View ArticleHurt’s Opportunity
Kate says . . . What do we do when our spouse does something (perhaps sin is involved) and we are hurt in the process? We want them to step up and take responsibility. We want them to do their time for...
View ArticleThat Still Hurts
Kate says . . . . We all have them! Those things in the past that cut deep. So deep that when we think on them now, we start to feel the same emotions well up in us that did when we first experienced...
View ArticleForgiven Hurts
Brad says… The past doesn’t always stay neatly in the past. When past hurts, pains and doubts creep back into your marriage you have a choice. Fight or surrender. In Kate’s post, “That Still Hurts” she...
View ArticleHere It Comes Again
Brad says… This morning Kate and I awoke to what turned out to be a stunning visual for my post, Forgiven Hurts. After a soft knock we heard those words every parent hates, “I think I’m going to be...
View ArticleSpeak No – Evil
Brad says… The whistle blows and the day is finally over. Many men shut down their work computer and with it log off the part of their brains. Men are experts at compartmentalizing. We have a “mental...
View ArticleSticks and Stones and Broken Bones
Brad says…. The playground taught me the biggest lie of all time. “Sticks and Stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me.” I don’t know who came up with this line, but there isn’t an ounce...
View ArticleFeelings vs. Truth
Kate says, You are in the moment and you are hurt or angry. You feel justified. Perhaps you are remembering something from the past and, snap, just like that the emotions are right there as if it...
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